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This is a recall about our family system...........though boring to read on a Sunday holiday when we are supposed to check out about the latest cinema running in near by malls or events to be attended in the evening...

Time changes everything..or situations ...we have excuses for changing...i.e to be in tune with the masses....I wonder how come this culture creep into our bloods.. In Western countries no one person likes to follow others.. they wish to be unique..self centered and never worry when a person criticizes his/her way.......

So the master mind reason behind our follow the neighbor strategy is our family system practiced by us for decades.Those days each mother would comfortably give birth to 10 kids...And those 10 kids would grow up together with a sense of sharing the common facilities provided by their parents...They may fight but after sometime they have to get together either for food or some other occasions of celebrations..Out of ten members there is a chance of two or three fighting at a time and other seven would try to pacify the angry kids, to be simple they can never stay apart for a long time. And this became the order of their life, they began to give importance to leading  their lives together by sacrificing their individual interests than staying apart to follow their own passion.

Think of today's family system, one kid's clothes are not touched by other sibling,one cannot try to question other's personal life. Communication barrier are created between the kids and even parents support the same in the name of privacy. Privacy has become a huge hurdle for creation of strong bonded relationships. One hesitates to question others way of life as they fear of backlash, one doesn't like to share his/her dreams with others fearing of being teased.

But when I observe my parents and their sisters, they share their ideas with ease. No fear of backlash, tease etc. They believe in sharing and understand the value of that share.

Sharing money/clothes/items is not great, but feeling comfortable about sharing your thoughts is a gift and our old family system was successful in attaining that goal.

So next time you see a friend not speaking to someone, try to find out the reason and restore the relationships, even though it may require you to enter into their so called personal life. It is the people who are required at the end of the day to share our happiness or grief and no amount of money can replace those understanding people.

A typical big family of mine... sorry for keeping it small (privacy matters)..Copy rights @ my sister. So when you have people, you need to fight, need to share, need to pacify, need to hang around. With these needs fulfilled you will experience SATISFACTION IN LIFE....!!!!!!! Happy Weekend..!!!!

Amitabhji- An old man with an young mind

We often feel that money makes a person go mad, it introduces people to bad habits, make them go wicked, develops a quality of laziness etc etc etc. But is it the fault of money or fault of a person's inability to handle money?

Let us take the example of Mr.Amitabh Bachchan , he is a god father of Bollywood (which does crores of business). Being in such a position, he has every opportunity to indulge in wrong doings and threaten the people from not reporting to the others as most of our corrupt officials and politicians do. But he is different, child like behavior.

Some excerpts from his blog regarding his acting in a short commercial for MAGGI NOODLES.

"Work, of the kind that makes advertisements and campaigns for a product. And this time its Maggie Noodles... the ones you make in 2 minutes, and quite a favourite among the kids.One would imagine for a 1 minute film it would be a cake walk for those that make films that last three hours. No.. Its a tougher job! In one minute one has to convey and convince the viewer what most of us need three hours to do,"Bachchan posted on his blog.

So is the observation of our beloved Bachchan, which could have been otherwise by an ordinary person to simply ignore the matter and belittle the very concept of commercial short films. But big people look at the big things of even a small incident. That's their specialty. Love to have such people around....!!!!!!!

Stylish Amitabh from JHOOM BARABAR JHOOM

Against the mad mighty..........!!!!!!!!!

Mention Bellary- arises the mining scam, mention mining scam - arises the Reddy and family. They are the people who according to Lokayukta report ran their own Republic of Bellary and established their own kingdom. Selling the free Iron ore and making huge profits to buy- BMWs, helicopters, bunglows etc etc.

They made holes in the land and filled their own pockets in the returns. They have Govt support, money support, manpower support. Who is going to stop them?????? As the  heads of the bad gets high its time for the good people to raise the hands and knock on the heads of those unjustified people.

And two people rose to the occasion- Justice Santosh Hegde (TOP) and Shri SR Hiremath (BOTTOM) .

                                                

One being a honest officer and another being a loyal social activist. The common characteristics between both personalities is their honesty to their duties. I wonder out of hundreds of corrupt officers and politicians, how come these two people chose their way apart? We hear parents saying go with the mass. What ever the society accepts we should also follow the concept. If neighbor pays Rs.50 as bribe to waterman we should also pay the same else we will become odd among many. But above mentioned two personalities are truly odd, they are odd among many mad...!!!!! It takes true guts and blessing of God to be allowed to gain prominence in the path where others fears to walk.

I wish that all the risks taken by these brave old people really becomes useful by putting the culprits behind the bars and provoking many other people to stand against the wrong doers bravely and honestly.........!!!!!!!!!!!Proud to be a Kannadiga!!!!!!

A book for you and your kid....Its Your Seed

Being a Parent is not an easy task, forgive me as I am not even married still but I could easily come to a conclusion about mistakes parents do in terms of taking care of their child..'Mistakes' is rather a sharp word to use, I would like to mention it as shortcoming..Parents provide good food, good clothes, good shelter but miss an important fact...providing their kid with a positive point of view about the aspects of this world...I expect that the particular bug should be encountered properly and hence decided to bring a book addressing the issue in a very light and sweet manner. Just go through it.. love it.. share it.. Love you alllll...!!!!

Open publication - Free publishing - More kid

Trip to Doodhsagar... Not just Photos

I had been to a trip along with my friends last year but couldn provide details.....I had arranged for the same after collecting details from the web so I thought of adding more details to the web collection... Just enjoy to see it.... Love you alll.....