Emotional accidents in Life...... :)

It surely happens and it should happen once in lifetime for everyone of us. Everything seems to be going on a high note and life seems to be flying like anything. We will be seeking dates with angels of heaven and feel to be seated on the throne of diamond. Mind will be running at the speed of lightning very much eager to achieve unimaginable in life and slightly our feet will be off the ground.

Just at this moment in life, we will be introduced to a problem which will be an ultimate check on the flying mode of life. A decision and everything will be a thing of past, our dreams, our vision and our aims. A sudden jolt of reality will struck our senses to make us realize that our feet is still on the ground and world never moves according to our imagination.

The absolute brightness is replaced by absolute darkness, absolute positiveness is replaced by absolute negativity and absolute inspiration is replaced by absolute disappointment. Heavens will turn into hell, throne of diamond will turn into throne of thorns. All plus becomes all minus.Life comes to a halt at a null point with a no other way to escape from the worse and your heart will search for light of hope with a big question of What next???? If you give up, its death on the other end.....

                   
Its time for you to recall, recollect, re-analyse and review the whole point of view you had about life. You will be introduced to a great truth that life is not the same for everyone. You have one life and your immediate next person has a different life. It all depends on the situations you are exposed to and view you build about the life within your mind which may/ may not sink with reality. 


At the outset emotional accidents which may be due to love failure or loss of beloved ones or a good dream getting broken is very important thing happen in ones life at least once or otherwise we may live hidden in our own world unaware of various worlds around us and thus miss a great opportunity to understand the truly loving people around us.

Get ready to be heartbroken once in your lifetime, its surely a lifetime opportunity....I had my turn...its ur turn  :))))

Disciplined few vs In-disciplined many... where u will get in?

If you are a guy/ girl settled in a good software job with an handful of salary and with a great family to take care of and have no problem with anyone around then u might not need to think about the subject as you don't feel like thinking about the matter.

But there may be a situation you would run into some form of trouble due to other's mistake rather than yours and you would be in tight spot to discover that this world is really not what you had thought and it is reality that though the world around you is beautiful but true world is not the same. It is not as bad as I am trying to portray but not as good as you were thinking to be.

The problem with the world is that there are few disciplined and many in-disciplined and hence there is total chaos in the world where disciplined wants to understand the world whereas in-disciplined wants to enjoy this world at the cost of disciplined people unconsciously. This basic difference is the reason for the chaos.

It is quiet difficult to make an in-disciplined believe in the path of disciplined as he/she may be skeptical about the so called colorless, entertainment-less, boring world of discipline. But there is no other way, its the transformation which is much needed, we have to make the disciplined world a little more joyful experience. If at all ppl don't wish to join the disciplined world for want of joy they should at least have one friend who is part of that world and give him/her the due respect which they deserve by restraining themselves from the corrupting the former.

This will surely update the whole world with best ideas churned out by the disciplined community of great thinkers, academicians, scientists and research and developers.

What do you think??

We are What our Gods are....

GOD and it is that word which everyone of us relate to in difficult times though not at happy times. Atheists may say there is no God but still they thrive upon the word "GOD" with a suffix "IS NO WHERE". 

Being an Indian, I believe in God. As said in the film Life of PI, we are introduced to many Gods in Indian culture and even I know few of them. But I wonder the need for so many Gods for us and why we need so many Gods altogether?  Doesn't one God is enough to satisfy our needs and save us from dire situations? 

These questions really put me on high thinking mode and the answer for this question was really strange. I mean to say, we are really what we think our Gods are by heart. Yeah, its true.

However harsh or rude a person may behave with you, he has his own God and he has his own prayers to the God. Try to find out the God he follows and you will be shocked to find that he truly resembles the God he follows.

I can give give you examples of reality. Just observe the Buddhist/Jains they truely resemble the qualities of the Lord Buddha/ Jain by heart even though they may not be so in the material world of business which requires them to lie/hoodwink. But by heart they want to be like Lord Buddha, they want to follow him by heart given an opportunity.

Similarly in tamil culture we have God's like karrupu samy, ayyanar etc and these gods are really rude and they are said to consume alcohol, non veg. And you will find that people who follow these Gods really like to consume alcohol and non veg and resemble their God by heart.

My point is that GOD is the one who we really to live like by heart, though we may behave differently with people around. He is the first source of inspiration to us.

Love.. wondering.. having a great idea about it..

Was busy in my world of blog, books and other philosophical matters of the world.. Was never interested in love.. which was something a holy thing to me... indeed still a holy thing to me.. It is that idea of seeing ourselves into the heart of others... you get that feel of being in the thoughts of your girl friend or wife.. and she being into your thoughts..

There is other part of the story wherein people view love as a form of physical affection .. To be true .. yeah the ultimate relationship between a girl and a boy ends in physical attachment but that relationship would be more strong if there was mixture of emotional attachment too..

But we can define a relationship for ourselves and not to others and hence the concept of pairing or love is interesting.. different interests merging at a point to give birth to a new interest indeed...

IN THE END, LOVE IS ALL ABOUT ART OF TOUCHING AND BEING TOUCHED BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY>>>>

Flip Flop---the way we do.....

Its almost 11.00 in the night and i am about to write or yell at the internet world. But do you know yelling does help us to relieve ourselves of our tensions and we will be in a better position of handling the things in the day to day life filled with tensions.

And hence i am yelling at you please don't mind. Have you ever faced a situation wherein you had to buy back your words which were uttered out of frustration/ with an intention to hide something which you didn't wish to divulge? Yeah, we often face such instances in life and when we are caught we use a comfortable technique called or known as FLIP-FLOP and this is the subject of this hour.

Have you counted the number of times you have twisted your tongue and faced an embarrassing situation indeed? And it is quite interesting to find that there exists a direct relationship between the number and the principles followed by you. And it is a fact indeed. When you speak out something it is a function of the principles followed by you and when you are strong at your principles no one can rule out your decisions as to be flimsy.

These flip flops can also make you look like a joker but at certain times can break the hearts very badly and hence it is better to gauge the effect of these flip flops and limit the same to be of a less milder one...So be careful with your words... :)

Art of decision making...quite difficult..

We almost drive ourselves into a situation wherein a left and right directions confuse us a lot. But the one who is clear about his/her destination chooses right direction quite early indeed. The one who gets stuck in confusion eats up the time. But even after doing so if the person chooses wrong direction then it is a disaster of massive ill effects.

I have no hesitation in accepting the fact that i am a late pick vehicle, but i am even proud to say that though late I end up in riding in the right direction. Due to this disadvantage of doing late people usually hesitate to travel along. Earlier it used to make me feel incapable and often guilty about my inability to move along with the people which even made me to restrict my rightful desires but as the time passed the same so called giving up became a fault among the eyes of the people. Though i did it for the love of the dear ones but they began to see me as a incapable idiot.

It was a difficult part of my life, but never to say 'I cannot' got up from the sober situation to tackle the challenge right through its eyes, I am struggling for excellence and quite confident in completing the circle in a big way. So many nos, so many laughs but everyone had one wish for me, they wanted to see me happy and I love their deep from heart support.The only thing which make me feel painful is about the fact that I wasted precious time on not so precious things and never wish to repeat the same. Striving towards excellence till the end..love this life...

A night-out... Its Namma Bengaluru Awards..2012

On 16th March at 6.30pm wanting to be in a crowded environment to have that little bit of extra energy to be gained from them, checked out the newspaper's event section and it was Namma Bengaluru Awards-2012 presented by Namma Bengaluru Foundation for various people serving Bengaluru city under their own capacities.

It was just twenty minutes drive from my house. Saturday weekend at Malleshwaram ground, its fixed. Got my bike and I was there to become a part of vibrant environment and was not disappointed.

Program began with a special performance by a Bangalore lad who painted portrait of Shri Kempegowda in 5 minutes, it was great fete (sorry I don't remember his name), next piece of painting was still more wonderful he managed to draw portrait of Dr. Rajkumar (Icon of Kannadigas) upside down. Couldn't stop appreciating his talent.

And next one hour, it was awarding session where dignitaries were awarded in various categories with a Mantap. And crowd cheered for each awardee. 

Finally it was for music and fun. Guess the person and it was our own energetic Raghu Dixit who made the audience stand on their toes with his ever Vibrant music supported by his flutist, guitarists and drummer, a perfect combination indeed.

He sang many songs for us and made our hearts bloom to its maximum size and hence made my day. 

A sincere thanks to him and Namma Bangaluru foundation.