Showing posts with label wish. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wish. Show all posts

Tuesday, 2 September 2025

Living a Decision

The Difference Between Taking a Decision and Living a Decision

We often think of decision-making as a single moment — the instant we choose one path over another. But the truth is, there’s a profound difference between taking a decision and living a decision. Understanding this difference can transform how we approach life, growth, and even success.

Taking a Decision: The Starting Point

Taking a decision is the moment of choice. It’s mental, strategic, and often influenced by logic, pressure, or external expectations. For example, you might decide to change careers, move to a new city, or start a new relationship. This decision is important, but it’s just the beginning.

At this point, the decision is mostly abstract. It exists in your mind, your plans, or your conversations. It can be exciting, scary, or hopeful. But crucially, taking a decision is a single event—something that happens once.

Living a Decision: The Real Challenge

Living a decision is entirely different. It’s the ongoing process of bringing your decision into reality. It means showing up every day, navigating uncertainty, overcoming obstacles, and committing emotionally and physically to the choice you made.

If you decided to change careers, living that decision means actually stepping into a new work environment, learning new skills, and facing challenges you couldn’t predict. It means resilience, persistence, and sometimes sacrifice.

Living a decision transforms who you are. It’s where growth happens, where intentions become habits, and where dreams meet reality.

Why Living the Decision Matters

Many people take decisions but never fully live them. This is why so many goals remain dreams and why so many plans fall apart. A decision that’s only made but not lived can feel hollow, uncertain, or fleeting.

On the other hand, a decision that is truly lived—despite hardships or doubts—never fails. It shapes your identity, teaches invaluable lessons, and ultimately leads to transformation.

The Takeaway

Taking a decision is necessary but not sufficient.

Living a decision is the real work—and the true path to change.

The difference lies in commitment, action, and endurance over time.

As the saying goes, “A decision not lived is just a wish. A decision lived is a path.” So next time you make a choice, remember that the real journey begins after you say yes.


Saturday, 2 April 2016

Its not to whom you pray but what you pray for and how you pray

Welcome to Hinduism.

I am not here to denounce other religion not even to promote my religion.

But I need religion , because when I speak something spiritual then religion comes into picture and I am Hindu, hence my below write up will surely have a touch of the same.

Again I am bound to inform you that I am not here to promote religion, not mine and not even yours.



Have you ever tried to recall, when was the last time you took support of your religion. Don't worry, I can help you out, or in that case I take support of religion and spirituality whenever reach of my mind gets limited. When my decisions need to take into account the dynamic behaviour of the people around as well as when I feel like making a wish for someone who is near to my heart, religion and spirituality does takes an important position.

I see someone struggling in life and there is no materialistic way wherein I can help him/her out , the last tool I have in my hand is to wish good for him/her  and pray for him/her.


I visit pooja room of my house and pray to my Lord Venkateshwara. I wish for solution to the problems which are beyond my reach of thinking. 

Now it was about me, I know that even you do the same unless you are an atheist. You might pray to Jesus, you might pray to Allah.

But it isn't about whom we pray for and it is more about what we  pray for and how we pray. Often we do end up praying something bad for others as a revenge for bad incidence, and again in this case we might not be truly involved. 

When we pray for something good to the people we love, we often do it sincerely out of love and affection.



So we do have false prayer and true prayer. It becomes totally immaterial to whom we pray which is basically a function of belief our heart follows.

Content and quality of our prayer is primary and delivery is quite secondary.

The situation in the world right now is quite reversed, wherein we are fighting on whom we should pray and aren't concentrating on what we should pray for.

Hope there will be an end to our madness and we shall really concentrate on what we should pray for and how we should pray.