F= m X a !!!!!

Mother feeds the kid. But the taste of food is not so attractive to kid and kid refuses to eat. But mother knows that kid is unwell and hence has mixed some medicine in the food that has to be fed to the kid. Now the kid is not matured to understand the reason and mother has no other option but to force feed the food.

Force is such a strange natural phenomenon which plays a vital role in the happenings of the universe. Strange because it can be viewed in different ways in different circumstances. For example, there is a rubber band in your hand, to use it you need to apply appropriate amount of force. You cannot use the rubber band by applying less force and at the same time you will tear the the same by applying more force. 

Most of the problem in this world is due to mishandling of the force factor. A father thinks he can forcefully nullify the relationship between his daughter and his lover. But a bit of mishandling results in the daughter eloping with lover which makes the situation go beyond the control of the father. There can be many post-event analysis like father's good intention behind the act or father not able to make the daughter understand his situation etc. etc. But fact remains that factor of force and its mishandling resulting in undesired event.

Force appears good when we believe the person who exerts the same, but the same force appears bad when we find its roots from an non-meaningful person. It takes immense maturity to deal with the force factor.

oh my trending !!!

There are various types of government - monarchy, communists, democratic etc. Of all these governments democratic form of government is defined as people friendly. Again democracy is defined as Government of the people, by the people, for the people by Abraham Lincoln. For a predefined area one single person is chosen as a representative, collections of such representatives choose a leader and policies are defined under purview of such leadership.

Above paragraph looks so easy to understand but practically it is not. Why? 

Ultimate goal of any good government would be good governance. Good governance means apt representation of aspiration of a person irrespective of his/her caste, creed , religion or economic status for collective development. If you observe keenly in practice it is not so.

For example, a village writes to government for good roads and drinking water. There are distant chances of its request being considered by the administration just by posting a letter or visiting the office of the in-charge. Ideally administration shouldn't be waiting for such letters. When it identifies people settlement it becomes the duty of the government to provide necessary facilities. But in practice it requires considerable use of the term called "influence". It may be through a caste head or a political leader. So a citizen is forced to give in to pressures of so called mass leader for availing facilities.

 So wherein the world democracy being upheld, it is monarchy of different form wherein you are forced to part with your liberties in return for facilities from government.

An ideal way would be government giving due considerations to opinion / requests of the citizen who are willing to communicate with it through letters and memorandums with apt reply for the same.

To counter this indirect blackmailing from the powerful, citizens found unique way of organizing themselves in the form of associations and organizations wherein organizations expressed their opinions through demonstrations and protests to feel empowered in questioning their own created powerful entity.

But by latest these organizations and associations have been hijacked by face-book pages and whats app groups who completely misguide the masses on the basic reason / idea behind organizing themselves in the form of associations and organizations which is nothing but availing facilities from the powerful in the dignified manner.

The epitome of this madness is the politics of trending to showcase their opinion. But sad part of the story is the objectives these trending have achieved. Society would have benefited if there was trending seeking good health schemes or good housing schemes or good employment schemes which showcased the maturity of trend maker.