Thursday, 31 July 2025

Mining that best moment

Mining is one of the most difficult and labor-intensive processes on Earth. It involves digging deep into the ground to extract ore—and from that ore, we extract precious minerals. When it comes to gold, the yield is shockingly small. On average, it takes about one ton (1,000 kg) of ore to produce a single gram of gold. This number varies depending on the ore’s quality and the mining techniques used, but one thing is certain: the process is demanding, relentless, and deeply human in its pursuit of value.

But mining doesn’t just happen in the earth’s crust. It happens every day, all around us, often in ways we don’t notice. We mine through life—through emotions, choices, and relationships—searching for something valuable. Something lasting.

And who are the best miners among us? Women.

Women mine beauty from chaos. They sift through endless designs to curate wardrobes and jewelry boxes that reflect style, culture, and identity. They mine the best groceries from crowded shelves and markets, transforming them into meals that nourish bodies and bring families together. They mine comfort from tough days, hope from uncertainty, and wisdom from experience.

We all mine life for its finest moments. Sometimes we strike gold—a conversation that changes everything, a perfect evening, a memory that glows. Other times, we come up with nothing but slush and fatigue. But still, we dig. Because somewhere beneath the surface, we believe something precious lies hidden.

But here’s a quiet truth: when we stop mining ourselves—stop searching within for our own depth, joy, and purpose—we allow the world to mine us instead. To take from us without giving back. To shape our value rather than letting us discover it ourselves.

That must be resisted.

So keep digging. Keep searching. The gold is still in there


Friday, 25 July 2025

When vouching becomes a business.....

We get paid for the work we do. But what proves that we’ve actually done it? In most organizations, it’s the manager who decides whether an employee has delivered. In that sense, the manager becomes the primary witness to our performance.

But what happens when someone questions the manager’s judgment?

Naturally, the responsibility passes up the chain. The director vouches for the manager. The CEO vouches for the director. And the board of directors ultimately vouches for the CEO. It’s a hierarchy of accountability, each layer "deposing" on behalf of the one below.

But here’s where things can go wrong.

What if the entire chain — from the employee to the board — is hand in glove, fabricating results or covering up failures? In such cases, a company can run for years under the illusion of productivity and success… until it collapses. When the company goes bankrupt, all those so-called depositions — the affirmations from one level to another — are exposed as bogus.

Insiders often see this coming. They know the inner workings, and they’re prepared for the fallout. They make their exits, hedge their risks, or even profit from the downfall. But others — especially outsiders — are left to face the real consequences.

Sometimes, it’s an entirely unrelated company that suffers. A competitor or peer organization, one that has done things ethically, may be dragged into the same scrutiny. They’re suspected of the same corrupt practices simply by association or by industry reputation. And they must now undergo painful audits and public questioning, just to prove they weren’t doing anything wrong.

That’s the tragedy. In trying to prove their innocence, these honest companies are forced to fight a battle they didn’t choose — often under immense pressure, at great cost.

In the end, the real culprit isn’t one person. It’s the system — a chain of blind endorsements and mutual cover-ups. And when a system is built on fabricated truths, even the innocent may suffer

At the end of the day, it’s not enough to say “we did the work.” If the only proof of that work comes from a chain of people falsely vouching for one another, then the work itself turns out to be fiction.

Truth in work comes from truth in systems. When accountability fails at every level, the output is just noise — and eventually, it becomes worthless.

Let’s build systems that don’t just say the work was done — but prove it.

Monday, 21 July 2025

When life takes form of its own will

Life surrounds us in countless forms—a delicate flower, a towering tree, a diligent ant, a loyal dog, a cherished friend, a guiding teacher. We celebrate life when it reflects beauty, wisdom, or divinity. Even when life appears darker—like a shadow or a devil—there are those who still find meaning in it.

Yet, there is one form of life that society often fears, resists, and even hates: life that dares to follow its own will.

Throughout history, we have built vast systems to suppress this freedom—mechanisms designed to contain life’s wild expression. These pressures show up everywhere:

  • Education systems that standardize thought

  • Legal and penal codes that punish deviation

  • Economic models that reward conformity

  • Religious institutions that dictate what is sacred or sinful

  • Governments and bureaucracies that regulate behavior

  • Families and kinship networks that impose inherited expectations

  • Cultural norms and media that shape our values and desires

Each of these, subtle or severe, works to mold life—to ensure it moves only within approved boundaries, never freely by its own inner force.

Why?

Why has society erected such a vast apparatus of laws, beliefs, and rituals to prevent life from simply being what it is? Why do we fear a will that is not assigned, approved, or controlled by an institution?

Because this world wants a spark that doesn’t burn. It demands motion without disruption, power without unpredictability.

But life that follows its own will is perhaps the universe’s most honest and vital expression—raw, wild, ungoverned, and deeply alive.

Still, we try to tame it.

We suppress what we fear: the mystery, the autonomy, the refusal to fit in.

Life that refuses to be robbed of its will may not directly inspire you to find your own—but it sends a clear message: the challenge to live freely is open to all.

Thursday, 17 July 2025

Responsibility matrix from crowd

This world often tends to hold responsible not the one who is truly at fault, but the one who happens to be assigned responsibility. There’s nothing wrong in expecting that crimes in a region be addressed by the local police, or that government machinery be overseen by the elected representatives of that area.

But responsibility becomes distorted when it goes too far—when a group of people falls for a mania or illusion, and instead of blaming the mania itself, they blame the one person who resisted it. Similarly, when a group of students fails a subject due to their own lack of preparation, they may blame the student who actually passed, as if their success somehow caused the others' failure.

It’s strange how people often fail to acknowledge individual success, yet are quick to unite in blaming someone for collective failure.

Whether it’s a collective failure or a collective success, we must learn to take ownership—without disowning responsibility or unfairly placing it on others. Just because a crowd points a finger at someone does not mean that person is truly responsible in the eyes of truth—or eternity.

Friday, 11 July 2025

Direction that doesn't bend

A Direction That Does Not Bend

It walks not backward into dust,
Nor leans ahead in blind pursuit—
But stands where silence touches stone,
Where truth begins, and lies are mute.

It does not bow to memory's weight,
Nor flinch beneath tomorrow’s gold,
It does not chase, it does not flee,
But holds a flame the dark can’t fold.

No echo sways it from its step,
No future dream, no past regret.
It listens only to the now,
And answers with a calm "not yet."

While others twist for comfort’s sake,
Or yield to fear dressed up as fate,
This path moves forward, firm and still—
Not fast, but ever straight.

It bends to none—it breaks to none—
A line drawn quiet through the noise,
Not seeking praise, nor fearing scorn,
But faithful to its silent voice.

Success that doesn't speaks for itself isn't real success

In today's world, it seems like everyone claims to have succeeded—except the one who truly has. A government employee who has amassed crores through corruption and married off his daughter in a lavish ceremony might proudly declare his success. But is that really success?

If every Tom, Dick, and Harry lays claim to the idea of success, then who truly deserves the title? The answer lies in those whose success speaks for itself—requiring no external validation or loud proclamations.

A timeless example is the Indian Constitution, the masterpiece crafted by Dr. B.R. Ambedkar. During his lifetime, Ambedkar didn’t receive widespread praise or material rewards for his work. He didn’t seek validation or legacy. Yet, his contributions have withstood the test of time and continue to shape our nation. Despite facing centuries of entrenched hypocrisy and resistance, his work prevailed—because it was rooted in truth, justice, and vision.

We often find ourselves torn between the glitter of instant recognition and the quiet dignity of lasting impact. But real success is not about noise, wealth, or show. It’s about creating something so meaningful that it stands strong, even when no one is clapping.

True success doesn’t need to be shouted—it simply speaks for itself.

Wednesday, 9 July 2025

Andhbhakts, andhbhakti, andhbhakti subscription model- the dance of trio

In today’s digital world, everyone is just one subscription away from fame. It takes only a fraction of a second — a click, a share, a follow — to turn an unknown face into an overnight celebrity. The internet is full of subscribers waiting in line, and the subscription model has become the silent force behind this rise to recognition.

At first glance, it might seem like there’s no real relationship between the one who subscribes and the one who offers the subscription. But look deeper, and you'll find that the subscription model forges a subtle, often overlooked bond — a kind of mutual dependency shaped not by personal connection, but by algorithms, visibility, and influence.

This model can manipulate digital ecosystems in ways we rarely question. It decides who gets seen and who fades into digital obscurity. It creates celebrities not because of merit, but because of momentum. Subscribers fuel the algorithm; the algorithm rewards the subscription provider — and in turn, the provider adapts to what the algorithm demands. Everyone is dancing to the same invisible tune.

The Real Kingmaker

In this system, neither the subscriber nor the creator holds true power. The real kingmaker is the subscription model itself — the architecture that governs attention. It commands both sides, turning platforms into stages and users into performers. This is why it attracts millions in investment and churns out influencers at an industrial scale.

So what makes this model so inevitable — even irresistible?

Its success lies in its scalability, its illusion of choice, and its ability to create recurring engagement. It works like a cloud — forming naturally when the right elements (data, desire, and design) come together. And once it takes shape, it becomes self-sustaining.

The Dark Side of Subscriptions

But not everything born from this model is benign. It also becomes a breeding ground for echo chambers — especially when ideological subscriptions replace rational thought. The blind allegiance that some audiences show toward particular figures or platforms has become a pattern. In the Indian context, terms like “andhbhakt” (a blind follower) illustrate this troubling dynamic — where loyalty overshadows critical thinking.

This dance — between the blind follower (andhbhakt), blind devotion (andhbhakti), and the platforms that profit from this (andhbhakti subscription model) — is laying a digital foundation for ideologies that work against the pluralistic fabric of society.


Final Thoughts

The subscription model is not just a feature of the internet — it is the internet. It shapes what we see, who we follow, what we believe, and even who we become. The real question is not whether we subscribe — but whether we are aware of what we’re subscribing to.

 

Sunday, 6 July 2025

When the system wants to skip you......

In times of crisis—political, social, or personal—there is a subtle but dangerous strategy at work: weakening what stands in the way, not by direct attack, but by slowly eroding its power until it becomes easy to ignore or bypass. When something is weakened, it is skipped.

This is true in many contexts, but nowhere is it more critical than in the strength of our constitutional institutions. These institutions are designed to protect the rule of law, uphold justice, and safeguard democracy. Yet when these institutions are deliberately weakened, undermined, or politicized, the Constitution itself becomes vulnerable to being skipped — treated as a symbol, not a safeguard.

The Danger of Being Skipped

To “skip” something means to move past it without acknowledging its value or authority. It is to act as if it does not exist or no longer matters. When constitutional institutions lose their strength, when checks and balances become ineffective, and when public trust is eroded, the system can be bypassed with little resistance. This skipping is not just an administrative failure; it is the erosion of the foundation of democracy itself.

But this is not limited to institutions alone. Individuals, communities, and ideas can be weakened so they, too, can be skipped—ignored or dismissed when their presence or voice is inconvenient.

Why We Must Prove We Cannot Be Skipped

In this environment, the challenge is clear: we have to prove that we cannot be skipped.

This means refusing to be silenced, ignored, or made irrelevant. It means showing up with strength, conviction, and resilience. Being unskippable is about being essential — about creating a presence so fundamental that to bypass us comes at a cost.

Being unskippable means:

  • Standing firm in principles, even when they are unpopular.

  • Building institutions that are transparent, accountable, and trusted.

  • Encouraging civic participation and educating people about their rights.

  • Speaking truth to power and demanding respect for the rule of law.

  • Creating communities and movements that cannot be ignored.

The Path Forward

The fight against being skipped is ongoing. It requires vigilance, courage, and persistence. But most importantly, it requires belief — belief that the present moment and those who inhabit it matter.

When problems try to skip the present and show it as weak, we must respond by reinforcing the present’s power. When institutions falter, we must rebuild them stronger. When voices are muted, we must amplify them.

We have to prove — to ourselves and to the world — that we cannot be skipped. Because if we allow ourselves or our systems to be skipped, we risk losing everything that makes justice and democracy possible.

Remember that when the system tries to skip you, then you are the system

Thursday, 3 July 2025

When the stars align....

We may spend years meticulously planning for the defining moments of our lives—mapping every detail, preparing with dedication, and holding tightly to our vision. Yet, when that pivotal moment arrives, it often comes down to something far beyond our control: how our stars align.

Despite the enormous progress of science and technology, no algorithm exists that can predict the alignment of destiny at any given point in a person’s life. There are times when, despite all logic and effort, something magical happens—when someone’s stars align perfectly, and their life is transformed.

But it's not just the righteous or the deserving who wait for these moments.

Often, it is the wicked who wait the most—those who rely entirely on fate to give their dark ambitions shape. Unlike the diligent, they don’t invest in preparation. Instead, they depend on the unpredictable celestial dance to finally tilt in their favor. When it does, the world can feel powerless to resist the wave they ride in on.

Yet, in rare instances, the highest intelligence emerges—not merely to witness this alignment but to transform it. To seize the moment and turn the stars, so to speak, against the wicked. It becomes an opportunity—not just to deny them the fruits of their patience, but to remind the world that intelligence, will, and timing can still intervene.

But even this intervention requires something profound. It calls for strength, clarity, and the finest human qualities—because, paradoxically, even the act of countering destiny depends on how the stars align.

Wednesday, 2 July 2025

Spectrum of life

### **The Spectrum of Life**

Life is all about
**borrowing the spectrum**,
from those who came before —
their lessons, their light,
their silent shades.

We step into colors
we didn’t yet understand,
tasting emotions we didn't yet earn.

Then we begin
**owning the spectrum**,
through choices, mistakes,
joys we craft ourselves,
truths we learn to speak.

And as we grow,
we begin **loaning the spectrum**
passing on our light,
sharing our palette,
guiding others through the fog.

> This is how we become
> a part of the spectrum.
>
> **This is how we help
> the spectrum evolve.**

Because each life adds a hue,
each story bends the light,
and the spectrum —
forever unfinished —
waits for us
to color it forward.

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