The days of moving around as an surprise guests are slowly diminishing. Just like taking appointment with doctor in hospital there is a need to take appointments with the well-wishers before meeting them in person to avoid unforeseen turn of events. Its a completely formal phenomenon.
Even after you are successful in gaining that prized appointment there is no guarantee that you will get that roused welcome matching with that of your effort. Thanks to instant connectivity technology there is nothing special to discuss in person nor any crave to meet the person as status is updated and DP is renewed regularly.
You can experience the real guesting blues when you visit the well wishers and at the same time well wishers is visited by a person who is bit more important than you. Till now the person who was in close conversation with you will simply shift the gears to make the extra important person feel special. Its a talent altogether which ordinary people find it difficult to practice.
Yes, the person has every right to make his guest feel special but not at the cost of the other contact. Engaging the people in the way they feel dignified creates an environment of acknowledgement wherein the person would feel convinced that he did the right thing in approaching you.
You can experience the real guesting blues when you visit the well wishers and at the same time well wishers is visited by a person who is bit more important than you. Till now the person who was in close conversation with you will simply shift the gears to make the extra important person feel special. Its a talent altogether which ordinary people find it difficult to practice.
Yes, the person has every right to make his guest feel special but not at the cost of the other contact. Engaging the people in the way they feel dignified creates an environment of acknowledgement wherein the person would feel convinced that he did the right thing in approaching you.
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